
My previous post has given me some pause for thought. Not only have I had some great colleagues over the years, I’ve also been lucky enough to get to know some fantastic customers.
Around twelve years ago, I met Mr William Hunter McGiffin while managing Crazy Prices, Springhill, Bangor. Mr McGiffin was elderly, perhaps in his eighties, not very steady on his feet and always seemed to be in a rush. He explained that his wife was ill and that’s why he rushed around, as he didn’t want to leave her alone for too long. Over a period of some months, I helped him find a few things and away he’d go, back out the door again. At one stage, I delivered some shopping as he too was ill to come out for it himself.
On one of the days when he seemed not be in too much of a hurry, he thanked me for my help. Always addressing me as Mr Parte despite my protestations, he spoke quietly with a NI public school accent. It sounded like what Radio 4 call “received pronunciation”. I cannot imagine him ever having raised his voice in anger.
During one of our conversations, the subject of the Second World War came up. Always a favourite subject for me, I asked him if he was involved. He modestly talked about flying in the RAF, how he flew Short Sunderland flying boats out of RAF Castle Archdale on ASW duties. At one stage he also flew the Armstrong Whitworth Whitley two-engined bomber, Hawker Hurricanes, and so on. His middle name, Hunter, must have been fairly apt at this time of war. He glossed over most of what must have been a horrendous time for him and his family. He told me also that in 1946, he got married and that he and his new wife bought the red brick house on the left set back from the road when coming out of Holywood on the bypass, for the sum of £4500 and that he was sorry he ever sold it!
I found him fascinating and regret not getting more of his story. Before I moved out of Springhill in 2000, he approached me in the shop one day with a woman who he introduced to me as his daughter. She was home from Germany on holiday. I was a little embarrassed to be introduced as “this is the man I told you about.” Any help I had been able to give him during the time in which I knew him was a pleasure and an honour, but it was lovely to know that he seemed to appreciate it.
A few years ago, as I was browsing history books in Easons, Bangor, I saw a picture of him in uniform. The book noted that he was now deceased. It turned out that he was not just a pilot, but at one stage a squadron leader and then a wing commander. I believe that he was with 502 (Ulster) Squadron. This evening, I managed to find a picture of him, on the internet, taken in Wiltshire in February 1943. He is in the second row from the back and fifth along from the left. He hadn’t changed much from the picture when I knew him.
Mr McGiffin was a real link with history for me, as well as being a lovely man. He must have been a great husband and father also. I am honoured to have made his acquaintance.
I’ve always been fascinated with history. Not with the Greeks and Romans, but local fairly recent history. I’ve researched my own family history going back some years and I enjoy the sense of history that old buildings bring, for example. However, I think that we all miss opportunities when we fail to talk to the elderly within our communities and families. All of my grandparents are dead and I have a number of aunts and uncles who are in their sixties and seventies. I’m going to make an effort to talk to them specifically about our family and local history. They are a living resource!